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Trust Beyond Your Instincts

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Scripture:
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Proverbs 3:5-6

Observation:
This verse confronts self-reliance. Solomon draws a clear line between trusting the Lord with all our heart and leaning on our own understanding. It is possible to believe in God and still default to our instincts. The promise is clarity and direction, but the condition is surrender.

Application:
As builders and leaders, we are paid for our judgment. Our instincts are sharpened by experience, scars, wins, and losses. Over time, it is easy to confuse pattern recognition with ultimate wisdom.

I remember a season when we were scaling a software product quickly. Cash flow was tight, bugs were surfacing, and customers were loud. My instinct was to control everything. I rewrote marketing copy myself. I reviewed every line of code. I sat in on every sales call. I told myself I was protecting the company.

What I was really doing was leaning on my own understanding.

The turning point came when a young leader on my team made a decision I would not have made. It was thoughtful, data-driven, and aligned with our values. My first reaction was to override it. Instead, I paused and prayed. Trust in the Lord with all your heart. That meant trusting that God could work through someone else, not just me.

Leadership maturity is measured by how well I develop others to carry responsibility. That requires humility. Humility is the character trait that keeps me from assuming I am the smartest voice in the room.

Trusting God in business looks practical. It means I build systems that do not depend on my constant involvement. It means I delegate outcomes, not just tasks. It means I create clear values and guardrails so others can make decisions without fear. It also means I check my motives in sales and marketing, asking whether I am manipulating numbers to calm my anxiety or stewarding them with integrity.

When I acknowledge Him in all my ways, in hiring, in firing, in forecasting, in product roadmaps, I invite Him into the process. I ask before I act. I pause before I react. And over time, He makes the path straight. Not easy. Not always fast. But straight.

If I say I trust God but refuse to trust the people He has placed around me, I am still leaning on myself.

Prayer:
Lord, teach me to trust You beyond my instincts.
Give me humility to develop others and release control.
Straighten the paths of my business, my leadership, and my home.
Help me acknowledge You in every decision today.

Build With God,
Bill

P.S. Identify one responsibility you are holding too tightly and delegate it with clear expectations today.

P.P.S. Further reading: James 1:5, Psalm 37:5, Proverbs 16:9

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